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Terry Freedman's avatar

I agree about making kids sweat a bit! (Forgive my paraphrasing). A 34 hour flight? That doesn't appeal very much I have to say.

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Anu Prabhala's avatar

Well, if you are right in NY or NJ, you’d be lucky to have a 19-20 hour journey door to door! This one was particularly long due to an added drive back home to MD from Philly. Agree about kids and sweating--my son has been sweating the trans continental flight since age zero every year;)

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Terry Freedman's avatar

yes, it's the non-flight bits that take the time. I once did 24 hours door to door, that was tiring!

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Jessica shah's avatar

I love the way you find meaning and depth around you so easily and roll a story

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Anu Prabhala's avatar

Thank you, Jessica! All I do is listen to my heart, and write:)

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Rupal Thakkar's avatar

Wow Anu mast ekdum

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Anu Prabhala's avatar

Thanks! Bhuta Niwas memories❤️

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Neha Sanganee's avatar

Welcome back! Loved reading this and thinking about a similar experience…I was directed to the kitchen of masterji’s house, his sweet daughter helped with fastening the curtain that partitioned their small work and living space.

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Anu Prabhala's avatar

Thanks, Neha! That sounds like quintessential Mumbai❤️

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Shalini gupta's avatar

Love your article. Indians always fascinates me with their creativity and zeal.

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Anu Prabhala's avatar

Thanks, Shalini! Necessity is the mother of invention?;) Every year we visit, I am amazed at the new solutions for everything from kitchen ware to jewelry care on display in the market!

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Padma's avatar

Lovely article, life as survival of adaptate is much more fun 😀

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Anu Prabhala's avatar

Thank you, Padma!

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C.L. Steiner's avatar

I miss India for those reasons and more! While I prefer the little Gujarati villages to the big city, I understand. Thank you for this glimpse of Mumbai.

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Anu Prabhala's avatar

You are welcome, C.L.! Where in Gujarat did you live? I did not know you were based in India, that’s cool!

Every year I visit, my first thought after stepping out of the airport is, how did I live here and bear the heat, humidity, and dirt. On day 3, I think, how could I not live here and how am I going to leave this beloved city?

My husband grew up in Baroda!

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C.L. Steiner's avatar

I didn’t live in India, but I have visited several times to stay at my Guru’s ashram in a village called Nikora, near Bharuch (not far from Baroda). You can imagine the shock of Mumbai after a month in a village ashram!

Since I’ve only been in India during December and January, the heat didn’t faze me, but I miss being there.

I did once consider opening a Neapolitan-style pizzeria in Mt. Abu, but my wife talked me out of it…

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Anu Prabhala's avatar

Yes, Mumbai can be crazy for folks living in other parts of India too who are not from the city, and the country itself can be a shock to the folks born in the Occidental West. To get a feel and appreciation for the city, you have to stay for a long time as on the surface it’s noise, dirt, confusion, and chaos😀. A pizzeria in Mt. Abu sounds divine, I’ll visit if you open one:) You might also try visiting Bangalore and Mysore where we spend time (my in laws are from that area). It’s more peaceful and green, but lacks a certain nutty gritty character;)

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Terry Freedman's avatar

who is your guru? I visited an ashram once -- in Los Angeles!

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C.L. Steiner's avatar

Her name is Shri Anandi Ma, and most of the year she lives in Northern California. https://dyc.org if you’re interested.

Whose ashram in L.A.?

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Anu Prabhala's avatar

C.L. -- I have some pictures from that Vithoba (Krishna) neighborhood temple in India I was talking to you about before I left. I can post them here or do you want to send me an email at prabhala.anu@gmail.com so I can respond there?

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C.L. Steiner's avatar

I sent an email - either is fine. And happy Krishna Janmashtami!

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Anu Prabhala's avatar

Vithoba is Vishnu, I typed in a hurry, sorry, but I’ll send the idol pics anyway. They are stunning and 408 years old--as old as the temple! The priest there who is 80, has been giving discourses on the Dyaneshwari for 50+ years. I introduced my son to him this time:)

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